"Either way, that's kind of ..." She made another face. "Like the girl's just some trophy. 'Hey, guess what I got from her.' And the guys all assume you're Mr. Hot-shot, and they all assume she's a slut for the same thing. It's crap, and guys being cocky and stupid about it just makes it worse. Awesome, now you look great and all her friends are gonna snicker about her behind her back."